"I Love Me"

By Corine Gatti

Oh my, did anyone here me? I said “I loved myself”. That sounds over the top. Or does it? It’s perfectly fine to love yourself and claim “I love me”, so get to it girl!

Forgive. We all screw up and have done regrettable things. If you haven’t you’re in a class all by yourself and I give you permission to move on from this gallery. However, for the rest of us, we need to forgive ourselves for making mistakes. It’s a big relief when you can forgive yourself.

Word. Watch your mouth. Self-defeating phrases make you want to run away from yourself not embrace self-love.

Love others. A sure way to see how much you love yourself is measuring how you treat others. When we release and love others despite their imperfections, it frees us to grow and move forward.

Quota: Friendship and Love

• Love is a single soul dwelling in two bodies – Aristotle
• Love puts the fun in together, the sad in a part, and the joy in heart
• Love reckons hours for months, and days for years; and every little absence is an age

• Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend – Albert Camus
• A true friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be going down – Arnold H. Glasow

• It's the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter – Marlene Dietrich
• It takes a long time to grow an old friend – John Leonard
• It is important to our friends to believe that we are unreservedly frank with them, and important to friendship that we are not – Mignon McLaughlin

• Friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything – American boxer Muhammad Ali
• It is not so much our friends' help that helps us, as the confidence of their help – Epicurus
• Many a person has felt the great emptiness of the death of a friend ... and been stronger from having loved them – Emil Ludwig

• It is a true friend who forces you into greatness -- Tony Coffey
• I don't need a friend who changes when I change and who nods when I nod. My shadow does that – Plutarch
• It is one of the blessings of best friends that you can afford to be stupid with them – Ralph Waldo Emerson
• If instead of a gem, or even a flower, we should cast the gift of a loving thought into the heart of a friend, that would be giving as the angels give – George MacDonald

• A friendship can weather most things and thrive in thin soil – Pam Brown
• Friendship is precious, not only in the shade, but in the sunshine of life, and thanks to a benevolent arrangement the greater part of life is sunshine – Thomas Jefferson
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10 Reasons to Love Yourself

By Daylle Deanna Schwartz

The greatest give you can give yourself is yourself — filled with self-love. Unfortunately, many people have a hard time giving this gift and are more concerned with giving others love than they are in giving it to themselves. That’s backwards!

Self-love fees great! Loving yourself and who you are creates a satisfying feeling of contentment. Instead of fighting with yourself, beating yourself up or being hard on yourself, you accept yourself in your own imperfect skin. Romantic love feels great but being able to give love to you all the time trumps that! Here are 10 reasons to build your self-love:

Self-love attracts love

While it’s an almost played out philosophy, it remains that truth that if you want love, especially from a romantic partner, you have the best chance of attracting someone healthy and loving if you’re healthy and loving to you. The Law of Attraction helps with that. But in addition to that, loving yourself radiates out from you and makes you more attractive, to everyone, whether at work or play.

Self-love motivates taking good care of your health

When I began to love me, I also began to work out in the gym with a trainer, run in the park, take vitamins and supplements, and be more vigilant about what I eat. Loving yourself makes you want to take good care of the one body you have. Doing whatever you can to improve and maintain your health says, “I love me!”
Self-love is spiritual

Not loving yourself is not. It’s hard to be spiritual and not like yourself at the same time. You may pray to God and go to a place of worship and try to be a good person but if you’re not being loving to you, something is off. The more you love yourself, the more you have to give and the stronger your faith becomes. God wants you to love yourself, not just others!

Self-love helps you appreciate yourself

It helps you view yourself through the lens of love and acceptance, not criticism, self-doubt, beating yourself up for your imperfections or only seeing what’s wrong with you. It allows you to recognize and celebrate the good qualities you have instead of ignoring them until the day you lose those extra pounds, find a way to make more money, get the hair you envy in others, or whatever shortcoming you make more important than the good person you are.

Self-love gives you a 24/7 best friend

Other friends may come and go but when you love yourself, you’ll always be there for you. At that point you can learn to enjoy your own company so you’ll never feel alone. Since I fell in love with me I began eating out, traveling, going to shows and movies, for walks, etc. on my own and love it! When I didn’t love me I treated people to join me so I’d have company. Self-love makes you the best friend you could possibly have since you know what you need and will get it.

Self-love helps you make healthier decisions

While I still occasionally eat French fries, chips, rich desserts, etc., I do it in moderation. When I didn’t love myself, I never considered how I hurt my body by consistently eating unhealthy food. I ate it for comfort, as a substitute for the love I didn’t have. Now that I love me, I think more about what to eat. It also helps me to say “no” to things I don’t want to do, clear toxic people from my life, and never settle for the best in a romantic partner. Self-love is a barometer for your choices that motivates doing things that are better for you.

Self-love improves your self-image

As you see yourself through the eyes of love, your perception of you gets better. I went from thinking I was fat to having a hot sexy body without losing a pound! Self-love changed my opinion of me and enabled me to build good self-esteem and strong confidence. Over time, the more you love yourself, the more you trust yourself. That helps you take more risks and to follow your dreams!

Self-love can help you look and feel younger

The peace and joy that self-love brings can be like a tonic for your soul. That can affect how you carry yourself and your energy level. When my self-love got strong, I bumped into some former students who I hadn’t seen in several years. They asked if I’d found the Fountain of youth since I looked so much younger than when they’d last seen me. No, I explained, I found me, and love the me I found. I no longer had the weight of feeling lousy about myself in my face. Strong self-love can make you glow, just like you do from romance.

Self-love fuels the train out of Door Matville by helping to break.

The more you love yourself, the less you’ll tolerate poor behavior from others. The more you love yourself, the more boundaries you’ll set. When my self-love got strong, the train out of DoorMatville was waiting for me. I got on it and never looked back! Self-love motivates protecting yourself and doing things that make you feel good. It makes you the most important person in your world so you’ll please yourself first. 



Read more: http://www.beliefnet.com/Inspiration/Galleries/10-Reasons-to-Love-Yourself.aspx?p=10#ixzz1t2RYziwe 

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